Marriage and Family Counseling
 t is a good thing at any stage of
a marriage to evaluate yourselves with temperament analysis. Whether
enhancing a good marriage, shoring up trouble spots, or endeavoring to
heal serious problems, the temperament analysis is a valuable asset.
Many of our marriages are sad pictures of people fighting to have their
own way, each determined to win over their opposition, others are in
the same house but have different agenda's and constantly go their
separate ways. Lines of communication are non-existent or fuzzy at best.
We see new books coming out on the bookshelves, we see talk show after
talk show trying to present new concepts and solutions to age old
problems. What is the answer? Do we even know what marriage is?
Marriage is simply a
close or intimate union of two people. When we look into what that
really means we see that a union is an alliance, a grouping together for
a specific purpose, a combination, a single whole made up of parts. When
we are joined together in matrimony, we make a merger of two separate
entities into one. The true concept of marriage is a sharing, a pulling
together, a melting together into the unity of one. I am not suggesting
that you become non-entities when you marry, but merely, that your focus
is now geared for the good of, and the promotion of the whole rather
than for that of self.
The best scenario
for any marriage is that there can be healing and wholeness brought to
everyone in the home where at all possible. Divorce, the alternative,
carries many scars for all involved. I urge you to make a conscious
effort to improve the quality of your relationship. Learn your strengths
and weaknesses and how to compliment them, thereby building the
strongest union possible. It is vital that we gain insight into each
others motivations and characteristics to dissolve misunderstandings. As
you learn to appreciate yourselves and your partners unique design, and
begin to work toward meeting your respective temperament needs, you will
be encouraged as you see positive changes. As you continue to evaluate,
improve, and adjust it will bring your marriage back into the arena it
belongs. Strive for unity. "Remember that a house divided falls,
and great and complete is that fall!"
"We
are what we repeatedly do.
Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."
Aristotle
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